Why Discipline Must Trump A Digital Detox - Sarah Doody
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Why Discipline Must Trump A Digital Detox

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On 29, Oct 2013 | One Comment | In Life, Society | By Sarah Doody

Over the past few months, there’s been a lot of talk about the idea of taking a digital detox. Earlier this year, the word digital detox was even added to the Oxford dictionary. The Oxford definition is:

digital detox (n): a period of time during which a person refrains from using electronic devices such as smartphones or computers, regarded as an opportunity to reduce stress or focus on social interaction in the physical world: break free of your devices and go on a digital detox.

The notion of a digital detox is being embraced by the travel industry with many hotels offering digital detox packages where they will confiscate your tech devices upon checkin to the hotel to ensure you fully disconnect from your digital life. This summer, I learned that there are retreat centers and camps for adults that offer digital detox programs. In August, I tweeted my reaction to these digital detox camps:

I can see how a digital detox could be powerful for some people. I imagine one benefit is that it creates an experience for them to aspire to long after the weekend is over. It creates a moment that they can recall and try to replicate on their own.

One such digital detox camp is called The Digital Detox. Their mission is to provide people with the opportunity and permission to put aside their digital arm and ”re-format” their own personal hard-drives… so they can return to their job and family feeling rejuvenated and relaxed, with a new found perspective, in order to live a more balanced life online and off.

Has our ability to maintain some type of discipline in our lives declined so much that we need to attend actual camps and weekend retreats where we are basically paying for other people to hold us accountable to not use our devices? I’m afraid this is the reality we live in.

Last fall, I went to Europe my myself for three weeks and I remember at the beginning of the trip, I had a hard time getting to “vacation mode”. It wasn’t until one morning when I was in my hotel room reading the Business Insider 10 Things You Need To Know In Tech Today that I thought to myself, I actually don’t need to know this. It was hard to unplug, but I did for the rest of the trip. When I got back though, my behavior didn’t really change. I was still tethered to technology.

A temporary break from a device of addition will likely not result in a long term habit change.

It’s not enough to just cut technology out of our life for a weekend or holiday. Sustained change in our relationship with technology will only come when we reprogram ourselves to be more disciplined in how we let technology permeate our lives.

In the Wired article, Can’t Get Away From It All? The Problem Isn’t Technology — It’s You, Mat Honan (@mat) tells the story of hiking the California backcountry with his wife and the experience of having the discipline to use his phone as a tool on the trip (for GPS and apps to help them identify constellations) rather than being tethered to every notification and social update. Honan suggests that rather than focusing on taking temporary breaks from technology, we need the discipline to live with it at all times. 

I could not agree more.

I believe one of the biggest problems we face is the element of discipline — learning how to set boundaries for how we live with technology. This challenge is only going to increase as technology becomes more embedded in our lives through being wearable, consumable, and central to so many experiences we’ll have in the future.

Honan goes on to write:

The phone isn’t the problem. The problem is us—our inability to step away from email and games and inessential data, our inability to look up, be it at an alpine lake or at family members. We won’t be able to get away from it all for very much longer. So it’s vitally important that each of us learns how to live with a persistent connection, everywhere we go, whether it’s in the wilderness or at a dinner party.

Why are we so bad at discipline? The root meaning of the word discipline involves training and knowledge. One definition from Oxford Dictionaries that I think is fitting says to train oneself to do something in a controlled and habitual way.

My guess is that the problem we have trouble with discipline lies in the landscape of technology in our lives. Technology is changing so fast that there’s never a period of constant long enough for us to develop any meaningful and lasting habits around how we use technology. How can we develop discipline in such a dynamic and distracting environment?

I’m really curious about the impact of technology on our lives as a society. I definitely don’t have any solutions, but I think there is something very intriguing in the space of discipline in technology.

Do you struggle with being disciplined in your use of technology? What strategies have you tried to help regulate technology in your life? Or, do you even feel like technology is a distraction? I’d love to hear your comments and thoughts on this idea.

 

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  • sethkontny

    October 29 2013 = an amazing day -> my birthday. Even better date, my sons; user awareness, behavior detection _